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July 13, 2023 Bible Study — Control Your Temper and Your Words

Today, I am reading and commenting on  Proverbs 14-17.

I found today’s passage challenging to write on because it is composed entirely of some of the proverbs for which this book is named (I know, I write this every year).   For the most part, these proverbs do not have a theme and are all useful lessons in wisdom.  However, there are a few ideas which the writer comes back to again and again.  The writer tells us that wisdom teaches us to control our tempers and not allow ourselves to let anger, or other emotions, control our actions or our tongues.  For that matter, the writer reminds us that wisdom teaches us to choose our words carefully.  Throughout the Book of Proverbs, the writer uses the word “mocker” as a synonym for fool.  It is worth noting that other translations use the word “scoffer” where the NIV uses “mocker”.   In this particular passage, the writer tells us that those who mock others, or scoff at them, have trouble finding wisdom, but those who seriously listen to others gain knowledge and wisdom easily.

The writer tells us that while we may plan our course, God determines how things work out.  If we plot evil, we will find everything going astray.  On the other hand, if we plan to do good, good will come of what we do, even if our plans do not work out as we intended.  Throughout the Book of Proverbs the writer teaches us that we should seek wise counsel when making plans, but here he reminds us that the wisest counsel includes allowing for God to direct us down a different path than what we planned to take.

I use the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

July 13, 2022 Bible Study — The Wise Build While The Foolish Tear Down

Today, I am reading and commenting on  Proverbs 14-17.

Today’s passage contains so many proverbs which sum up key points of wisdom in simple sayings that I never quite know how to write a blog on it.  I am going to try and find a few themes which I think are addressed from different viewpoints in several of these sayings, maybe I will even be able to connect these themes together.  First of these: the wise do constructive things which build up people, things, and organizations, making them better, while fools tear down people, things, and organizations.  Those who tear down often claim that the tearing down must be done in order to build back better, but a careful examination will usually reveal that they have no plans for what to do after they have destroyed whatever they claim to desire to improve.  One example of this comes from examining some companies which laid off employees in order to cut costs.  They cut staff to save money without ever truly understanding who their productive employees were.  I was reminded of that by this proverb: “Where there are no oxen, the manger is empty,
    but from the strength of an ox come abundant harvests.”                        The point of this being that the most efficient way to keep the manger clean is by getting rid of the oxen which soil it, but without the oxen you cannot harvest the crops which provide you with income.  Related to this we often find those seeking to destroy dishonest and deceitful, while those seeking to build honestly portray the risks they propose we take.  The former despise God, while the latter fear and honor Him.  Which brings me to the final point I want to cover from this passage: those who fear the Lord use restraint when speaking, while the destructive use words as one more tool to destroy and break down.  The wise wish to communicate clearly so they are careful to use words which mean what they wish to say, and which will not bring unnecessary hurt to the listener.  The foolish use words which cut  and can be easily misconstrued.  This truth is such that even the foolish appear wise when they keep their mouths closed.  In fact, if you fear that you are foolish a good way to gain wisdom is by listening to what others have to say while keeping your own thoughts to yourself.

I use the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

July 13, 2021 Bible Study — There Is A Way Which Appears Right

Today, I am reading and commenting on  Proverbs 14-17.

I could do my entire blog on just a couple of these proverbs, and that is what I am going to do.  I prefer to find themes for the entire passage, or something which links everything together.  However, today I am going to pull just a couple of these proverbs out and talk about them. So, let’s start with this one:

“There is a way that appears to be right,
    but in the end it leads to death.”

This one is perhaps the scariest.  It tells us that there are paths we can follow which seem right, but are not.  However, this reminds me of one of my hobbies, playing Tabletop Roleplaying Games.  In such games one of the players is known as the Gamemaster, whose job it is to tell the story for the rest of the players and act as a referee to ensure that the players are following the rules. From time to time in describing the situation the players must take part in the Gamemaster will say some thing like, “The room APPEARS empty,” or “The chest does not APPEAR trapped.”  Most players have learned to treat such things as a red flag and be on the alert for what comes next.  In much the same way, the proverb writer is warning us to be alert when something feels right,  when our emotions tell us it is the right thing to do.  That is when we must engage our logic and compare it to what God says is right.  Which leads us to the second one of today’s proverbs I want to write about:

“Commit to the Lord whatever you do,
    and he will establish your plans.”

We cannot go far wrong if we seek with all of our actions to bring glory to God and not to ourselves.  If you do whatever you do in order to bring glory to God, with no thought to your own interests, you will avoid the path which the first of these warns against.  in fact, the third of the proverbs which I wanted to write about today expands on this them:

“Better a little with righteousness
    than much gain with injustice.”

Seek righteousness rather than reward and you need not fear that you are on the wrong path.  I started out thinking that what I would write on each of these proverbs would stand alone, but, as you can see, once I started writing I realized that they linked together to teach us.

I want to leave you with a thought from the proverb writer which challenges me every time I come across it:

“Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent,
    and discerning if they hold their tongues.”

As you might guess, keeping silent is not one of my gifts.

I use the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

July 13, 2020 Bible Study Choose Your Words With Care

I am using the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

Today, I am reading and commenting on Proverbs 14-17.

Today’s passage contains a collection of pithy sayings which sum up wisdom.  Of course, that makes it hard to write a blog entry on it.  However, there are a couple of things which the sayings repeat in different ways.  One of those is the importance and value of choosing your words carefully.  Wisely spoken words can accomplish much to make your life better, but foolish statements will come back to haunt you.  The wise use few words, meaning that even a fool can appear wise if they limit what they say.  In fact, if a fool keeps quiet perhaps it is because they are learning wisdom.  The wise speak sparingly because in their humility they realize that they have nothing useful to say.  Closely related to that, the wise choose both their words and actions with care.  They do not rush in before they understand the situation.  Which leads us to the advice on controlling your temper.  Allowing anger to control your words and/or your actions will cause you to say or do foolish things.

Another set of thoughts contained within today’s passage to which, while related to the previous paragraph, I cannot easily transition follows.  If you look for trouble, or reasons to be unhappy, you will find them, but if you seek good and happiness you will find that instead.  Related to that, those who seek understanding and self-control will be better off and happier than those who seek wealth and power.  Which leads that trading time with those you love, and who love you, for wealth and power obtained by spending time with those you despise and who despise you is a loser’s game.  The advantages of wealth and power gained dishonestly are not worth the loss in self-respect and integrity.

July 13, 2019 Bible Study — Those Who Do Right Learn To Fear the Lord. Those Who Do Wrong Despise God.

I am using the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

Today, I am reading and commenting on Proverbs 14-17.

I feel like I keep saying this, but there is not really a theme which runs through today’s passage.  It is a collection of wise sayings which each contains useful understanding.  However, there are several ideas which are repeatedly addressed.  The writer tells us that those who fear the Lord do right and those who do right fear the Lord while those who do wrong despise God.  The writer makes clear that this idea is two-sided.  Fear of the Lord will lead you to do right, but doing right will also lead you to fear the Lord.  I think we often overlook his point that those who do wrong eventually come to despise God.  Many people who despise God, who despise Christianity, do so because they do not wish to admit that their actions are wrong.  Those who love and fear God admit when they do wrong and seek reconciliation.

The writer repeatedly makes two related points.  I never realized that the writer was connecting them before today.  First, the wise choose their words and actions with careful thought about their consequences.  Second, the wise take their time in reaching a conclusion about events.  They do not immediately reach conclusions based on what they are told, or even based on what they have seen.  They wait until they can be sure they know all of the relevant facts.  Fools quickly believe that what supports their preconceived notions and do not ask more questions.  Then they pass that on as unquestioned fact.  The wise speak only of what they know and cautiously point out areas where their knowledge is incomplete.

July 13, 2018 Bible Study — Fear of the Lord Leads To Wisdom, Failure To Fear the Lord Leads To Folly

I am using the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

Today, I am reading and commenting on Proverbs 14-17.

    Today’s passage contains many proverbs begging to be expanded. There are several which are at first glance obvious, but which contain much more than the simple truism they first appear. For example,

An honest witness does not lie;
a false witness breathes lies.

That seems so obvious that one wonders why even say it? But giving it the careful thought it deserves reveals that there is more to it than the obvious. There is both an element of advice about whose word to take when people’s testimony (and not just in court) disagrees. If one person has repeatedly lied while the other has been truthful, trust the latter. However, it also contains advice for how we lead our lives. If you always tell the truth, people will believe you when it matters. Every time you say something which is not the truth, you risk never being trusted again. Today’s passage contains many proverbs which are worded as advice about judging others but also contain advice on how to live our own lives.

    I am not going to take the time to review all of the proverbs within today’s passage for which I find value in doing that. Instead, I am going to take the time to hit on the high points of the writer’s advice. To some degree, all of the writer’s advice expands on choosing humility of pride. Living humbly will lead one to do almost all, if not all, of the other actions which the writer advises, while being full of pride leads to the actions which he warns against. The writer makes a second foundational point, all of his other advice, including the point I just made, flows from this. Fear of the Lord results in wisdom, not fearing the Lord results in folly. Early on the writer reminds us that this works both ways. While those who fear the Lord will do what is right, it is also true that those who do not know God but seek to do right will learn to fear the Lord. On the other hand, those who despise God will do evil and those who choose to do what is wrong will learn to despise God.

    Finally, I want to spend a few minutes going over some of the other advice the writer gives in this passage.

  • Choose your words carefully
  • The right word at the right time can do wonders, while the wrong word can create disaster.

  • Control your anger
  • Allowing anger to dictate your actions will lead you to do things which you will later regret. If the cause of your anger justifies an action there is time enough to take it once your anger has passed.

  • Do not start arguments
  • What happens once you get someone worked up and angry will no longer be within your control and you may regret the results.

July 13, 2017 Bible Study — Choose Your Addiction Carefully

I am using the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

Today, I am reading and commenting on Proverbs 14-17.

    Today’s passage is composed of a large number of one or two sentence words of wisdom, most of which seem obvious but which say more than they seem to. A good example of this is Proverbs 14:5

An honest witness does not lie;
a false witness breathes lies.

Those two parts are self-evident. “An honest witness does not lie.” Well, of course, that is what it means to be an honest witness. “A false witness breathes lies.” Again, that is the definition of a false witness. However, when you look at these two together you realize that the writer is telling you something more than that. If someone lies to you, they will probably always lie to you on important matters. While someone who tells you the truth will probably always tell you the truth. There is even one step further than that. Every time you tell the truth, especially when it hurts you to do so, it becomes easier to tell the truth and harder to lie. And every time you tell a lie, especially one which gains you advantage, the harder it is to tell the truth and the easier it is to lie. Telling the truth and telling lies both become addictive. You need to decide to which you would rather be addicted.

    In many ways the idea of choosing to what behaviors we will become addicted is carried throughout many of the proverbs here. The more we choose to do what is right, just, and wise, the more we will do what is right, just, and wise without thinking about it. The more we choose to do the opposite, the more we will do the opposite without giving it a conscious thought. The other thought, closely related to the first, which permeates these wise sayings is that: if you want to be wise, spend time with the wise; if you want to be righteous, spend time with the righteous. On the other hand, if you spend your time with the foolish, you will soon be foolish and if you spend time with the wicked, you will find yourself doing evil.

July 13, 2016 Bible Study — Integrity and Fear of the Lord

I am using the daily Bible reading schedule from “The Bible.net” for my daily Bible reading.

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Today, I am reading and commenting on Proverbs 14-17.

    I really like the message of the proverb in chapter 14 verse 2, especially when you look at it in both the NLT and the NIV. I think that both readings tell us something important about human behavior. The NLT take on the proverb tells us why some people fear and follow God and others do not. Those who choose to walk on the path of righteousness will fear God. Those who take the path of sin and deceit will despise God. If you have looked around you will see how often this is true. There are many people who refuse to believe in God because that would force them to accept that the lives they have chosen to live are sinful. There are many people who embrace a faith in God because they wish to live a righteous life. On the other hand, the NIV take tells us that those who fear the Lord have integrity and act accordingly. Those who despise God choose deception and lies. There is truth here as well. The fear of God leads people to lead lives of integrity, while those who despise God become ever more deceptive and devious as time goes by.

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    Throughout this passage are many proverbs which sum up basic truths about life. The writer repeatedly stresses the importance of choosing our words carefully. He covers issues from speaking with arrogance to telling lies, to allowing our emotions to override our better judgment. The wise do not allow their mouths to lead them into such errors. The writer’s emphasizes the importance of taking our time to reach a conclusion, not allowing the heat of the moment to guide our actions. I see people around me failing to follow this advice and thus making problems worse rather than providing solutions.